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The unbreakyourheart online programme

I’m Lesley Cannell and I developed unbreakyourheart over twenty-five years as a professional psychologist, enabling thousands of clients from all over the world to make profound & lasting changes.

This interactive online programme has powerful tools and resources to help you change yourself permanently so you can break your pattern of painful relationships and get ready to find love with a guy who’s really worth it.

The programme is in five parts that you work through in order. Click on any part to discover more about what’s involved at each stage and the outcomes you can expect:

Part 1
THE HEARTBREAKERS, WHAT’S YOUR TYPE?

Learn more about guys who are heartbreakers. Use our interactive questionnaires to analyse YOUR relationships and find out where things have been going wrong.

  • Is there a type of guy you usually go for? What do your exes have in common?
  • Are you attracted to Heartbreakers?
  • What relationship pitfalls do you typically fall into?
  • Do you need to take action to improve YOUR relationships?

Identify the patterns in YOUR relationships, then save your results to help you in PART 2.

Part 2
WHY, WHY, WHY?

Follow our diagnostic process to get to the root cause of WHY you’ve been caught up in difficult relationships and what YOU need to fix in PART 3.

  • Work out why YOU keep finding yourself in painful relationships… not just bad luck but a complex mix of factors that probably started a long time ago.
  • Find out how we accumulate Emotional Baggage and how it draws us to the wrong guys and messes up our relationships.
  • Use our in-depth questionnaires and exercises to analyse yourself and your past and identify what YOU need to fix.

Your results, insights and discoveries will flow through to your Emotional Baggage Inventory in PART 3 and will also suggest areas for you to work on in PART 5.

Part 3
UNBREAKYOURHEART FOR GOOD

Access powerful tools and resources to help you heal the past by carrying out an‘emotional spring clean’… because lasting change happens from the inside out.

  • Find out how you can work with your unconscious mind to remove emotional obstacles and repair damage from the past, so you can break away from your old patterns and get ready to ‘do relationships’ differently.
  • Access our special audio downloads to help you clear out the Emotional Baggage you identified in PART 2, in a calm and relaxed way.
  • Discover ideas on how to find specialist professional help if you feel you might need it, as well as links to some useful resources.
  • Keep track of progress, using your Emotional Baggage Inventory.

As you find yourself thinking & feeling differently, you’ll start to avoid relationships that will be bad news, so you’re ready to choose a relationship that can make you happy in PART 4.

Part 4
YOUR RELATIONSHIP WISHLIST

Work out what you really need from a relationship, connect with the feeling of being with the right guy and suss out whether any potential partner fits the bill.

  • Once your Emotional Baggage is no longer calling the shots, follow our stepby-step process to work out what you really need from a relationship partner.
  • Use our interactive tools to suss out potential partners, keep track of what you uncover and weigh up whether they tick your boxes… before you get involved.
  • Connect unconsciously with the feeling of being in a loving relationship… it could just increase the odds of attracting the right man into your life!

Your results, insights and discoveries will flow through to your Emotional Baggage Inventory in PART 3 and will also suggest areas for you to work on in PART 5.

Part 5
UNBREAKYOURHEART RELATIONSHIP TOOLKIT

Understand yourself and your partner, fix problems that come up and learn new skills for ‘doing relationships’, based on research into what actually works.

  • An extensive collection of tools & techniques, developed throughout my career as a psychologist, to help at every stage of your relationship, including:
  • There’s my ‘Ten Point Plan’ for getting through the crucial first few months of any relationship in one piece.
  • Tools to help you understand your partner and smooth out points of tension.
  • And a fascinating insight into the behaviours that are most likely to make relationships run smoothly – based on long-term couples research.

After your inner spring clean (PART 3) it’s much easier to put these skills into practice. Great news whether you’re in a new relationship or handling an existing one in a whole new way.

This comprehensive, integrated approach is the best way I know to unbreakyourheart. PART 1 is available for 7 days FREE OF CHARGE when you SIGN UP FOR FREE. And when you SUBSCRIBE you can unlock the rest of the programme. As you complete each stage you’ll unlock the next, until you have unlimited access to all of our tools and resources and all your results and insights for as long as you’re a member. As a subscriber you’ll also be part of our invitation-only</span > community, so you’ll be able to share your experiences and know you’re not alone while you fix yourself and get ready for love.

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On our ABOUT page you’ll find out how I developed this special programme over the last 25 years and discover the magic that can follow when you unbreakyourheart.

“Please note: this programme is not intended to constitute advice. Please seek specialist professional help if you feel you might need it. There‘s more information here about how you might find a suitably qualified psychologist or therapist.”

How does it work in practice?

You’ll work through our interactive, online programme at your own pace, spending as much or as little time as you need on each area until YOU feel ready to move on... and you’ll know when that is because the programme will guide you from one stage to the next.

As you complete each part of the programme you’ll unlock the next, until you have unlimited access to all of our tools and resources and all of the results and insights YOU’VE come up with, for as long as you’re a member.

And there’s a lot to get your teeth into...

  • There are videos to watch and lots of very readable, unique content that I’ve created to deepen your understanding – including stories and examples based on my work with clients. You’ll also find jargon-free descriptions of referenced scientific studies that offer evidence for the approach you’ll be following and explain why it works.

  • Then there are plenty of interactive questionnaires to fill in and exercises to complete – whose aim is to get you thinking and coming up with insights into your own situation and what you need to work on.

  • And there are some very special audio downloads that will help you ‘fix’ yourself, (working with your unconscious mind), and enable you to visualise and connect with the kind of relationship you need in the future. This creates the natural motivation to choose the right guy instead of being tempted by heartbreakers.

  • There’s an in-depth, interactive process to help you create a wish list for the kind of relationship that’ll be right for you in the future... and we even have tools to help you evaluate guys you meet, to see if they ‘tick your boxes’ before you get involved, instead of letting your heart take over.

  • To complete the process, there’s a toolkit of a relationships skills for you to learn and practise - based on long-term research into what actually works.

  • And throughout the programme you can keep track of progress in fixing yourself, learning new skills and changing your behaviour using our interactive tracking tools.

So I guess it’s very clear… this isn’t a quick fix. It’s an in-depth and comprehensive programme of personal change.

  • That’s why it’s important to take it step-by-step, focusing on fixing yourself and feeling better on the inside before thinking about the kind of guy you need or trying to learn new relationship skills… because Lasting change happens from the inside out.

  • And remember, throughout the process you’ll be part of the special community that’s only available to subscription members, where you can share experiences and feel connected to other women who are on the same journey and understand what you’re going through – whether you’re coping with a break up, coming to terms with the past, getting ready for a promising first date... or celebrating finding love at last!

I’ve spent many years researching the unbreakyourheart process, creating this in-depth programme and enabling clients to achieve lasting change. And it’s worked for me too. After many years of painful, hurtful and disappointing relationships I finally managed to break with the past, fix myself and find love with a man who makes me feel great.

I’d love you to do the same. So why not give it a try…

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How long does it take to complete the programme?

Everyone’s journey is unique and personal to them, so there’s no recommended timing for completing the programme and certainly no time limits. You’ll spend as much or as little time as you need on each area until YOU feel ready to move on..

Here are some factors that can affect how long you’ll spend at each stage:
Part 1 - 3

Some women take a few months to analyse their past, identify what they need to put right and work on their issues. But, as I’m sure you’ll appreciate, others take much longer.

It all depends on where you’re at right now, how much you have to fix, how much time you can dedicate to the programme and your own personal response to the process of change. The important thing is that you know you’re moving forward... and that motivates you to continue.

Part 4

As you change you’ll want to redefine the kind of relationship you need and that requires some careful thought and tuning in to your unconscious motivation. You may go back and modify your RELATIONSHIP WISHLIST more than once in the light of your experiences.

And while you’re dating it’s good to be able to weigh guys up calmly to see whether they ‘tick your boxes’... so you can walk away from any unsuccessful candidates. As my grandmother used to say, “You may have to kiss a few frogs before you meet your handsome prince”!

Part 5

Even when you’re seeing a guy who’s right for you, there may still be things you need to work on.
(Trust me, I know from personal experience!) You’ll be glad to have access to our whole RELATIONSHIP TOOLKIT, dipping into it and learning useful new skills as your relationship evolves.

That’s why it’s difficult to predict how long YOU will need to unbreakyourheart, because we’re all different and it takes us as long as it takes. This is not a quick fix and it requires an investment of time and energy. But as a professional psychologist and a woman who’s been through the process and found love at last, I KNOW it’s an investment worth making… and the further we go, the better we feel.

So do YOU want to break with the past and get ready for a loving relationship?

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